They are married couples who are both graduates of Thunderbird. Some met before they arrived and others found their lifelong partners right here on campus.
In celebration of Valentine’s Day — which is held annually on February 14 in the U.S. — dozens of Thundercouples have shared their stories of love.
Some are funny and some are sweet, but all of them are filled with the sense of adventure and mystique that make Thunderbird special.
Their stories have been posted every weekday until Valentine’s Day. Today is the final posting in the series.
We hope that you will enjoy reading their stories as much as they have loved writing them! Happy Valentine’s Day to our Thundercouples!
“We met in 1998 in Professor Gottlieb’s Export/Import class. It was the Frankfurter Allgemeine that I was reading that got the German boy’s attention. But it was the Gatsby Gala at the Wrigley mansion that winter that sealed the deal. Oliver was gorgeous, smart, and way fun. We spent a good part of that night together and have been inseparable since. At Thunderbird, we shared a love of adventure, exploring Arizona, riding Oliver’s motorcycle and the intellectual and social aspects of this special place in the desert. We have been married for 16 incredible years that have been split between the U.S., Germany and Ireland. We have enjoyed working for several multinational corporations and our lives have been touched by many friends around the globe. Our mantra has been “never a dull moment” and although the multicultural family-across-the-ocean aspect of our lives can be challenging at times, we wouldn’t have it any other way. We have two fantastic boys that are citizens on two continents and we will raise them to be citizens of the world. Long live Thunderlove. Happy Valentine’s Day.” – Rita Flom Britz ’94 and Oliver Britz ’93
“The story of how I met my Thunderbride, Lisa, was at a beach party that my college roommate was throwing at his parent’s beach house near Seattle. He had organized a reunion party for his study abroad group and invited me to tag along. The group included students who attended colleges all over the Pacific Northwest who had completed a semester abroad in Cologne, Germany. The party was just a few weeks before fall semester was about to start up the University of Washington. During the party, I met Lisa for the first time and the conversation was so effortless and fun. We were sitting on the beach talking about all kinds of things, including the subject of what we hoped to do after college. I mentioned my plan to attend a special school for international business in Arizona but said that on one ever recognizes the name. Much to my surprise, she asked if it was Thunderbird. She then proceeded to explain that she was planning to go there too! As we continued talking we learned that we both were attending the University of Washington and both had the same major. For as long as I have known her, Lisa has always worked with purpose on a cause to make the world a better place. For many years following grad school she was the program officer of an educational foundation in Seattle focused on human rights, national security, energy and environmental issues. Over the past several years, Lisa has focused full time on our three kids but has still managed to keep a volunteer schedule that would rival any full time job — raising money for cancer research, rebuilding neighborhood parks in San Francisco, serving on the board of a foundation educating Burmese refugee children, teaching Sunday school at our church, and most recently, helping to establish a public umbilical cord blood bank that will be among the first of its kind in the country. Lisa is special because she cares deeply about making the world a better place and because she has been so highly effective at using her time, both personally and professionally, to bring positive change.” – Ann “Lisa” Craig Napoli ’87 and Gregg Napoli ’87
“We have been married 26 years. We met at Thunderbird in the fall 1983 and married in August 1984. We have relocated several times to Paris and Shanghai, China with the automotive industry. We have two children, Michael, 25, and Alexandra, 19. Here is our story: I didn’t come to Thunderbird with the intention of finding a husband and he had no intention of coming to the U.S. to stay. Each of us was searching for the next step in life, never guessing that the step would be to the altar. Was it when I first saw him at the French Club meeting across the room with his booming voice accented by a dark overgrown mustache? Or was it when he accidentally flipped me over while practicing Aikido on the Quad? Or was it when he called to apologize and ask me to the Pub, where we discovered a common interest in Pac-Man? Who knows? Twenty-six years later, this unlikely Franco-American union endures. For our 20th anniversary, we returned to France to run in the Marathon du Medoc. Alain, a native of Bordeaux and I, a native of the Midwest, thought this would be a great way to celebrate. It was and remains a perfect metaphor for a marriage of two cultures often navigated over narrow roads, gravel paths and patches of shifting sand. Our chance meeting in the desert lowlands of Arizona to the gentle rolling terrain of the French countryside and back, has been worth the entire journey.” - Alain M. Dereix ’83, Chief Engineer at BWI Group, Inc. Kettering, Ohio and Wendy Wong Dereix ’84, ELA Teacher, Watts Middle School, Centerville, Ohio
“I met my husband Jarl Ånerud ‘82 in the new student orientation line on a hot August day. Of all things – a girl from Arkansas meets a Norwegian Viking in the desert! We were married in a private ceremony in Phoenix nine months later. We drove straight from our Accounting final, via the Courthouse, to Sky Harbor airport – in a yellow Skylark convertible with a bottle of champagne and a cooler in the back. Our honeymoon was the first time I was in Norway! When everyone returned for the fall semester, there were certainly a number of surprised students and faculty! We moved to Oslo, Norway in 1983 and stayed there as well as London, for over 25 wonderful years. We returned to the U.S. in January 2009 for Kelly’s career opportunity in New York City. We are still together almost 29 years later – maybe at least partly due to T-birds’ natural and positive curiosity for other cultures and their ability to adapt. We have two sons – both born in Norway, and now living in the U.S. They might be T-bird legacies someday – who knows? To all our T-bird friends, please stay in touch and Skål y’all !” - Kelly Ragan Ånerud ‘82 and Jarl Ånerud ‘82
“You never know what you will find at a T-bird First Tuesday! Karen Longo ’88 and Antonio Fernandez ’98 first met at a Phoenix Chapter First Tuesday in 2004 while Karen was president of the chapter. The very Type A president and so very Manana Man realized they were a great balance for each other. The pair married in 2007 and are enjoying life! Words of advice – support your local T-bird Chapter! You just might find LOVE!” –Karen Longo ’88
Elisabet’s story: “Barcelona, Spain: where she grew up; Kalamazoo, Michigan: where he grew up. Glendale, Arizona- IPE Winterim class of ’98: Where they met and started dating; Archamps, France : Where they spent the Summer semester of ’98. Chicago, Illinois: where he got his consulting-competitive intelligence job after graduating; Miami, Florida: where she got her banking job. Washington D.C.: where they relocated with their second jobs to finally live together and where their first child , Nina, was born in 2004. Barcelona, Spain: where they relocated and had their second child, Kirsten, in 2005. Washington D.C., Chicago and Grand Rapids: where they’ve moved to and worked in the past 5 years; Hong Kong: where he was last week on business; Mumbai and Delhi: where he is going next month on business. Orlando, Florida: where we are spending this week visiting Disneyworld (1st time for the kids) and celebrating my birthday” - Elisabet Pons ’99
Kurt’s story: “Elisabet and I met in Winterim ’98, when we started in the same IPE class and cohort group ( I don’t recall the name of our group but there are multiple people that we have both remained in touch with since graduating). After graduating, we maintained a long-distance relationship until an opportunity arose for us to both take positions in Washington, D.C. We were married in 2003 and have two daughters — one born in the US, the other in Barcelona. We currently live in Grand Rapids, MI. One of the real positives to dating and ultimately marrying a fellow Thunderbird, is that there is an inherent shared interest and passion for all things international. For us, this manifests itself in a variety of ways, from shared interest in politics and learning things about new cultures, to a willingness to search out positions that involve a high degree of travel and potential for ex-pat assignment. It’s highly likely that we will end up living and working outside the U.S. when the right opportunity presents itself. Our shared Thunderbird background increases the likelihood that we will both be able to thrive and enjoy that experience.” - Kurt Neubauer ’99
“I remember the first time I saw Patrick…..showing up the last day of orientation. He had some confusion with dates. He was off in Mexico or somewhere. We shared some classes and friends during our time at Thunderbird. I knew he was a great and interesting (and cute!) person, but our paths did not bring us together as more than friends until three years later. We decided to meet at a Thunderbird happy hour and ended up talking for hours. Over the next few months we became more than friends. Shared passion and interest….we found that through Thunderbird, as well as in each other. We both had a love of travel, learning new things, having new experiences and meeting new people. It was a whirlwind of adventure and fun in the early years. He is now my best friend as well as my husband. We share two incredible children together and a beautiful life. Life is still a whirlwind, but a very different scenario. Children’s voices, children’s toys, dogs barking, bird tweeting….things have changed, but not the way we feel for each other. How is he special? His loyalty, passion, fire, intellect, dedication, spirituality, love for his family, desire to keep growing, wit….I really can’t narrow down in words all that makes him the incredible person he is. I can just be thankful I get to spend my life with him.” –Shannon Bird Brennan ’00 and Patrick Brennan ’99
“We met at T-Bird Tuesday in Miami in January 1996. With the same first name, breaking the ice was not hard. In fact, we joked we could never date because it would be too confusing! We immediately found a shared love for cycling and agreed to ride together before work. Latin dancing on “group dates” with other T-Birds in South Beach, where we both lived, soon followed, and it wasn’t long thereafter we began dating. Since we both spoke English, Spanish and Portuguese and shared many other passions, it was easy to start exploring the world together, even as we dated for two years before tying the knot in 1998. This included coordinating work trips to Latin America, traveling together and with other T-Birds to Europe and Asia, as well as skiing, scuba diving, golfing, and cycling. Whitney knew she wanted to grow old with Whit because he could turn any situation into a fun adventure. Whit knew Whitney was special because she would accompany him on his adventures as well as ground him at home. Together we have developed a strong relationship by understanding our different motivations for approaching life through the Enneagram, serving us well for 15 years!” - Whit Allen ’92 and Whitney Meyer Allen ’95
“Arnie and I met our first semester at Thunderbird — summer ’89 — playing for opposing teams on the soccer field in the over 115 degree heat. Married since 1993, we have also survived working together since 1991, playing soccer on the same coed team for 12 years and earning our CFPs over a 2-year period together at night after a long day at work. People constantly say to us they could never work with their spouse, yet it has never been an issue. It has almost always been that way…. maybe it was all those wonderful Thunderbird Diplomacy courses!” –Stacey Snyder Verbeek ’90 and Arnoldus “Arnie” Verbeek ’90
“Ampy Lee ‘92 and I met in Hong Kong in February 1994, part of a wave of T-birds flocking to the territory. We were part of a tight-knit group, and professional pursuits were foremost. Just before the Handover of HK to China in July ’97 romance bloomed, unexpectedly; we risked our own and many friendships with the new relationship. We joke that we self-arranged our marriage. Since we had only three weeks before Ampy departed for the Philippines and I to Shanghai for work, we decided to interview each other about what we wanted out of life and marriage over the three weeks. While romance took care of itself in the evenings, lunches were all business, when tough questions were asked and answered. How many kids? What about family relationships? What about faith? Three months of emails and calls followed, and in October we decided to get married in August 1998 in Scottsdale. During our engagement we saw each other one weekend a month, in either Manila or Shanghai. During the 13 months of our courtship, we spent only eight weeks together. After nearly 13 years of marriage, she’s still the vision of beauty she was then, and our arranged marriage is going strong.” -J. Chris Cogswell ’93
“Those who attended Thunderbird during 1984 will most probably recall the sight: a very trusting cute little Valley girl frequently crisscrossing the campus precariously perched on the handlebars of a black beach cruiser pedaled by a blond guy from North Carolina. That was us – Suzanne and John. We actually met on the first day of Winterim in the coffee shop. The pickup line was so cheesy that it doesn’t warrant repeating. Anyway, we stuck together and the cycling seemed to symbolize the bond between us. The trust was requited and lasting until the last day of classes before graduation. Before word processors and personal computers, most students would pay someone to type their papers for them. We had jointly written a case study on Vickers in Asia and had just collected it from our typist’s house somewhere in Glendale. Our families had also arrived for the graduation festivities and had planned a dinner for us – off campus! All we needed to do was get into some nice clothes and submit the paper to the prof’s office in the control tower before a night on the town. Time was short and the bike seemed to be the natural means to speed our way across campus and to the car. Remember those berms that surrounded anything which required water? Well in haste as John cut a corner too tightly, the front wheel of the bicycle caught one, catapulting Suzanne into the hedge that separated the parking lot from the grass in front of the cafeteria. And in her hand was the paper! The dirt on her knees was less of a point of anger than the grass stain on the cover sheet of our last exhausting project. John sheepishly re-typed the page but saved the soiled one. It was duly framed and given to Suzanne on their wedding day.” – Suzanne (née Dibie) Shook ’84 and John Shook ’84
Written by Kim: “We were at Thunderbird in 1992. Being the early birds that we were, we both signed up for the 7:30 a.m. International Finance and Trade class. As exams drew near, study groups formed and we were part of the same group. We also both studied Asian languages — Kyle took Japanese and I took Chinese. A dinner group was formed where the group looked for fun Asian restaurants near campus. Needless to say, as we studied and dined, we fell in love. On Halloween, Kyle took me to a beautiful dinner in Scottsdale and proposed. We now have three children and live in Houston, Texas. When my third child was born, I chose to pursue a different career — raising three kids, which I love. Kyle has been with Wells Fargo Bank for 16 years and is currently EVP & Group Head of the bank’s Energy practice.” – Kim Adams Hranicky ’93 and Kyle Hranicky ’93
“Chandra and I met during the first day of orientation at Thunderbird, where we were placed in the same cohort group. She was beautiful and I was arrogant. Right from the start she and several future friends disliked me. During the over 110-degree summer of 1998, our cohort group worked, stressed, and enjoyed the freedom that only full time students coming out of corporate jobs could really appreciate. Any prolonged period of high stress, pressure, and competition change and bond those involved. Chandra and I quickly started studying, hanging out, and as often as studies allowed, clubbing in Scottsdale. Our friends knew it before we did and a few months later we started dating. One day in a lecture hall staring at the world map and planning a back packing trip, I realized that she was without any doubt ‘The One’ that I wanted to see the world with. My trip money went for the ring. After graduation in an olive grove in Umbria, Italy she said ‘yes.’ Her love of life, food, adventure and fun has never dulled since the day I met her. We have sky dived, bungee- jumped, slurped soba, siesta-ed, dined well, and driven recklessly on several continents. In four months, we will celebrate our tenth anniversary. The adventure has never ended and she is still ‘The One’.” -Richard Riccetti ’00 and Chandra Seki Riccetti ’00
“John and I met in the pub at a “Welcome New Students” night in late January 1978. I just arrived from Chicago and John had just returned from three years in the Peace Corps in Cameroun, West Africa. I forget how we met, but we were way more interested in checking other people out than talking to each other. Fast forward to the summer and we were in practically every class together and started just hanging out. After about a month, I dropped a hint with some friends that I was kind of interested – but he didn’t pick up on it, so I decided to forget the whole thing. He finally asked me out to see a mercenary movie (how romantic) on 11/16. We talked until dawn (honest!) and so began our future together, but we had job offers in different places. After graduation, John decided to move to San Francisco with me and gave up a job in South Africa with an industrial company. We were married on November 17, 1979 in San Francisco with T-birds Ed Atwill, Tony D’Antonio, Doug Pressman and Terry Backstrom attending. Today we’re in business together in the Bay Area and our son Max just turned 21. We were in Scottsdale this past week for a conference and stopped by Thunderbird. It felt great to be back where it all started!” -Barbara Damm McKinney ’78 and John McKinney ’78